71: I Am Afraid of Losing What I Love! With Nicole

<p>Today’s episode is about being confident in your current relationship. During this coaching session with Nicole, she tells me she is in her first serious romantic relationship, and she is afraid she is going to sabotage it. Nicole is to be acknowledged for her level of awareness and coachability during this call. It was fun to work with her to update her belief systems and to get her excited about learning how to be in a relationship. One thing we didn’t talk about was her possible “<a href= "http://christinehassler.com/2017/01/coaches-corner-caller-questions-manning-up-and-upper-limits-problems/">Upper Limits</a>” issue. Nicole is getting more love and emotional availability than she ever has before, which is what she wants; she just doesn’t know what to do with it. I wanted to empower Nicole to enjoy the relationship she’s in, because it’s important to know the difference between when it’s time to go back into our past and chip away at something, and when it’s time to get over it and on with our lives. So, we worked on Nicole’s belief systems, and I allowed her to adopt a beginner’s mind. She didn’t have a healthy model for being in a romantic relationship, so I recommended she learn about what a healthy romantic relationship is. <em>Get my guide,</em> <a href="http://christinehassler.com/intuition/"><strong><em>6 Steps to Intuitive Decision Making</em></strong></a><em>, free when you check out my fresh and updated website.</em> <em>My</em> <a href="http://christinehassler.com/innercircle"><em>Inner Circle</em></a> <em>membership community is growing quickly. It’s a place you can hang out with like-minded people, where you get access to one-on-one coaching calls, my customized, guided meditations and visualizations, and lifestyle practices. E-mail</em> <a href= "mailto:Jill@ChristineHassler.com"><em>Jill@ChristineHassler.com</em></a><em>, with any questions you may have.</em>   <strong><em>*</em></strong> <em>There are only 2 spots left for my</em> <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/spring-retreat/"><em>W