Separating from the Inauthentic Identity You Created with Dave Selinger - Episode 282

<p>Episode 282 is about innovation.</p> <p>Don't judge a book by its cover. When Dave Selinger was an early employee of Amazon, he led the research and development arm of Amazon's data-mining and personalization team. He co-founded Redfin, which helped change the status quo in real estate. Now he has his own company called Deep Sentinel. David is on the autism spectrum but he never let that stop him from living life to its fullest potential - instead, he harnessed what talents and skills came naturally to him. In order to devote time to both work and home life, David makes sure his family gets all of the love they deserve.</p> <p>Do you want to know how to innovate yourself? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at<a href="https://ianlobas.com/podcast/"> <u>https://ianlobas.com/podcast/</u></a></p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Quick Timestamps</strong></p> <p>00:06:35 Dave's first computer</p> <p>00:07:29 Trouble connecting with others</p> <p>00:11:18 Noticing patterns in my life</p> <p>00:14:19 Fitting In</p> <p>00:15:43 Epiphany at 9 years old</p> <p>00:16:36 High Functioning autism</p> <p>00:20:44 Social norms and adverse effects</p> <p>00:23:49 Parental support and issues</p> <p>00:28:15 Meeting your kids where they are</p> <p>00:30:34 Dialing in your response rates to people</p> <p>00:37:46 Leaving college to work for a startup</p> <p>00:39:51 Definition of loss and failure</p> <p>00:44:29 Work is important, it's just not everything</p> <p>00:48:15 I'm going to work my ass off, just won't let it poison my family</p> <p>00:52:43 Amazing years - working with Jeff Bezos</p> <p>00:54:13 Joining amazon</p> <p>00:59:45 Starting Redfin and disrupting the RE market</p> <p>01:02:47 Encouraging my kids to be engaged with the world</p> <p>01:05:37 Morning exercise is a budgeting exercise</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Connect with Guest</strong></p> <p>❤️ Website: <a href="http://www.deepsentinel.com/"><u>www.deepsentinel.com</u></a></p> <p>📚 Twitter: <a href="https://twit