Invalidating Each Other’s Feelings - The Sneaky Ways You Do This To Each Other & How To Stop Episode 85

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So here you are, trying to share with your partner something that is important to you and something that you feel emotion around… Then they say something like: <em>“you are overreacting, it’s not that big of a deal”,  or even “that doesn’t make sense!”</em></span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You immediately feel invalidated and maybe that your feelings don’t matter, right? This causes many upsets and conflicts for couples and at the very least, disconnects you from love and understanding from your partner. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Today’s topic came from a coaching session we had this week, in which we then posted this question to our couples community: “Do you ever notice that you feel your emotions are invalidated by your partner, what has you feel that way?” There were many replies and great examples of the words and actions that caused people to feel invalidated (we will cover a number of them). </span></p> <p><strong>From this episode you’ll take away:</strong></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What causes you to feel invalidated</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The 3 reasons why this is used as a  defensive mechanism</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The new actions to take to keep from invalidating each other’s emotions</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <p><strong>Quotes:</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Yes there are universal truths, but there are also personal truths, for both you and your partner. What you BOTH are feeling right now are both true for YOU!” - Aaron </span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>About Us:</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a</span> <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">DM on Instagram</span></