EP272: {Special Series} What it's Like to be an Enneagram One - Heart, Mind, and Soul with Amie Lindsay - The Reformer

Enneagram Type 1s are the integrity champions of the Enneagram. They have high standards and make us all strive to be better. <br /><br />But that rigidity can be a bit off-putting for some of the other Enneagram types.<br /><br />So, when they can lighten up and move toward the free spirit within, that's when their true gifts can really come to life. <br /><br />My coaching client, Architect and Enneagram Type 1, Amie Lindsay, has mirrored a lot of areas of my life that I needed to have reflected back to me. <br /><br />Today on the show, Amy walks us through her Enneagram Type 1 story. While everything in Amie's life looked great on paper and to the outside world, she faced challenges in her business and her most personal relationships. <br /><br />We'll dig deeper into how Enneagram coaching with me helped transform her relationship with her daughter and how she uses the tools of her 2 and 9 wings as a wife, mother, and even in her business. <br /><br />Listen in as Amie walks us through the difficulties of working alongside another Enneagram 1 (and how they make it work). Plus, she shares what she wishes more people understood about the Enneagram Type 1 and her best advice for those who live with and love a 1 for a deeper connection.<br /><br />What You Will Learn <br /><br />The most pivotal moment for an Enneagram 1<br />How the Enneagram 1s motivation to be 'good' makes them project onto others when they are lacking confidence in any area of their lives<br />Why Enneagram 1s high expectations make them feel like everything of theirs, from their car to their cat, reflects on them<br />How the high standards of Enneagram types like 8s and 1s can create division in their personal relationships<br />Why Enneagram 1s need a safe space, judgment-free zone to open up about what's really happening in their lives<br />How Enneagram 1s can look deeper to discover the 'what's in it for them' piece in their most personal relationships<br />How perfectionist Enneagram 1s can use their 2 and 9 wings to stretch toward mo