EP 87: Overcome the Fear of Success and the Fear of Failure with Becca

<p>This episode is about overcoming the fear of success and the fear of failure. During the coaching session with Becca, it is clear she intellectually knows what she needs to do to build her business, but she can’t commit to doing it.</p> <p>[For show notes go here: <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/episode87">Christinehassler.com/episode87</a>]</p> <p>Everyone defines fear and success differently, but usually our fear of success has to do with being seen more, feeling unsafe, feeling more responsibility for changing, or changing or losing ourselves in some way. Our fear of failure normally has something to do with rejection, loss of money, or status, or security, judgment from others, or our own self-criticism that we endure if we fail.</p> <p>So, how do we overcome these fears? It's about more than taking action steps towards your goals. Maybe, you have tried to overcome it by just doing whatever it is. But, until you upgrade the beliefs and old triggers, which perpetuate the fear, you will continue to find yourself in your own way.</p> <p>Many people think money will make them feel better about themselves or make them more confident. But it doesn’t — confidence is an inside job. We can’t create self-worth from money, but we can create net worth from self-worth.</p> <p>When we have self-worth and do the internal work, we express our gifts and align with our higher purpose. We are then able to attract money to us. It is important for us to have a wealth consciousness.</p> <p><em>Aubrey Marcus and I are facilitating a 3-day retreat in Austin, Texas over Memorial Day weekend for men and women. The focus of the retreat is</em> <a href= "https://www.eventbrite.com/e/love-practice-makes-the-master-tickets-33443861490"> <em>Love: Practice Makes the Master</em></a><em>. There will be yoga, breathing exercises, ecstatic dance and more. Come and become part of the tribe.</em></p> <p><em>My</em> <a href= "http://christinehassler.com/innercircle"><em>Inner Circle Membership Community</em></a> <em>is an eclectic commun