EP 300: Let Go of the Relationship that is Based on Your Past So You are Open to the Relationship that is Aligned with Your Future with Linda

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This episode is about releasing addictive patterns by remembering the love within us. Today’s caller, Linda, recently ended an on-again-off-again two-year relationship. She questions which wounds are causing her patterns. We discuss her soul’s journey, how she is not broken, and how she can help herself feel safe, seen, and loved.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[For show notes, go here:</span> <a href="http://christinehassler.com/episode300"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Christinehassler.com/episode300</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">]</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It is often unresolved issues from our past hurts, wounds, and things that were hard to go through that impacted our beliefs, attachment style, trauma response, and psyche. However, it is important not to see ourselves as wounded or broken. Personal development is best addressed as a learning opportunity, not from a fix-it mindset.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When we don’t have a great model for love and when we feel worthless, relationships, even unhealthy ones, are going to be addictive. Because, often, we confuse love for something familiar.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even if you are an addict or have been in the past it doesn’t mean you haven’t made progress. Just the fact you’re listening to this show and this kind of information, means you are a seeker. You want out of the addiction, patterns, bad relationships, and the scarcity mentality. It can be frustrating if you feel you have a long way to go but acknowledge the wisdom of your soul for at least getting you to where you are now.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You will get farther if you continue to be proud of yourself for where you are.</span></p> <p> </p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you have been wanting to join my Personal Mastery Course but just haven’t done it yet, now is a great time to sign up. On