#25 - The ghost in your genes in action - Rachelle Furer (Part 2 out of 3)

To live well PRESENTLY in our life, it is required that we maintain the equilibrium between the belonging to our system (including in it the influences of 7 generations of our ancestors) and our autonomy as an individual in the present generations.  In this 2nd part of the 3 parts the "No matter what, I belong" series,  Rachelle Furer is sharing some real cases that show what happens when we allow the unconscious blind loyalty to our systems rules our lives.  Along with that, she is sharing some tools and approaches to help us maintain the equilibrium between our autonomy as the present generation and our belonging to our systems. For more than 40 years, Rachelle has been searching for ways to help others move along their paths with greater ease. This exploration has encompassed delving into psychology, philosophy, systemic thinking, spiritual practices, metaphysics, a plethora of alternative therapies along with the more practical and pragmatic pursuit of counseling, coaching, facilitation, and teaching. Now semi-retired to Switzerland, Rachelle remains passionate about personal and leadership development. Timestamp: 00:00     Opening and introduction 02:30     What Blind loyalty towards the systems we belong to looks like, how complex and blended this can be, and how this impacts our lives on a daily basis. 04:30     What happens when we are in conflict or denying our systems. 05:30     We are sane only when we have constant equilibrium between autonomy and belonging to the blended systems. 07:15     Real example when we reject a part of our system. 21:15      What equality concept means and can mean 25:25    How we can become whole within to move on in life feeling empowered. How to maintain an equilibrium of to belong and to be autonomous - suggestion of approach and tools. How blind loyalty to our system can burden us today. 31:05     A real example of how blind loyalty in action and how to change the dynamics to be truthful. 37:45    What it means to belong to a system - your role in it - your contribution