137. Shankar Vedantam with Ross Reynolds: The Power & Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain

<p data-aura-rendered-by="331375:0"><strong>Have you ever asked someone, “How are you?” while not really caring about their actual response? And why would you need to, when we are conditioned to rarely respond to this question honestly?</strong> This is an example of deception and self-deception, and it happens in little and big ways around the world every single day. While this example may seem innocuous, self-deception has caused harm—to us, to our communities, to the planet. But if it is so bad for us, why is it so ubiquitous? The <em>Hidden Brain</em>’s Shankar Vedantam argues that, paradoxically, self-deception can also play a vital role in our success and well-being.</p> <p data-aura-rendered-by="331375:0"><a href= "https://townhallseattle.org/event/shankar-vedantam-with-ross-reynolds-livestream/"> Vedantam joined us</a> in conversation with KUOW’s Ross Reynolds to explore how the lies we tell ourselves sustain our daily interactions with friends, lovers, and coworkers. On the <em>Hidden Brain</em> podcast, Vedantam peels back the layers of lies that keep us from seeing reality clearly and from becoming our best selves, which led to him uncovering and exploring this dichotomous impact of <strong>self</strong>-deception specifically. Drawing on powerful personal stories contained in his book <em>Useful Delusions: The Power & Paradox of the Self-Deceiving Brain</em>, he presented a correlation from self-deception to why some people live longer than others, why some couples remain in love and others don’t, why some nations hold together while others splinter. But how do we find the line between those lies we tell ourselves that are helpful and those that are harmful? Coupled with new insights in psychology, neuroscience, and philosophy, Vedantam offered a fascinating tour of what it really means to be human.</p> <p data-aura-rendered-by="331375:0"><strong>Shankar Vedantam</strong> is host of the <em>Hidden Brain</em> podcast and public radio show and the author of <em>The Hidden Brain</em>, a <em>New York Time