How to Stop Worrying if You're Dating the Right Person

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Welcome to episode 246 of the Love Live Connection podcast. In today’s coaching episode, we’re joined by Nicole to discuss whether to follow the head or the heart when they contradict each other in relationships. It’s really her 11-year old self asking for help. A history of perfectionism, OCD, seeking the approval of family (especially her parents), and a religious upbringing all combine in her outsourcing her power. So I talk her through doing some inner work and figuring out how to get marriage off the pedestal she’s placed it on. </span></p> <p><strong>7:01</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- What Nicole’s head is saying about her current relationship</span></p> <p><strong>11:23</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- OCD as a child and where Nicole’s perfectionism comes from</span></p> <p><strong>17:30</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Nicole’s message to her 11-year-old self and how she’d respond back</span></p> <p><strong>20:56</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Revealing Nicole’s misalignment and the work she needs to do</span></p> <p><strong>27:45</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Taking note and keeping track of the stories Nicole tells herself </span></p> <p><strong>34:09</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Not liking yet still accepting what your partner does and compromising (or not)</span></p> <p><strong>38:35</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Compatibility issues and deciding if the PlayStation situation is a deal-breaker</span></p> <p><strong>45:02</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Nicole realizing the need to work on herself rather than find the “perfect” person</span></p> <p><strong>48:46</strong> <span style="font-weight: 400;">- Reiterating some concrete takeaways from this coaching call</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on</span> <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/veronicaegrant/?hl=en"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Instagram</span></a> <span