#277; Scales, training logs, your body. How do you make & measure PROGRESS LONG-TERM + the most important YET OVERLOOKED piece. Ft Dillon Phaneuf

<p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/dillonphaneuf/">@dillonphaneuf</a></p> <p><a href="http://instagram.com/transformxruby">@transformxruby </a></p> <p><br>whats next ?</p> <p>where are you going to go?</p> <p><br></p> <p>Having confidence is showing up for yourself and doing the things you know you need to do and knowing that this all leads to the outcome. If ou give your best and show up for yourself every day, things will work out</p> <p><br></p> <p>But bang on</p> <p><br></p> <p>Scale – hard to let the scale to go up </p> <p><br></p> <p>I think that social media and opinions and make this really hard because “tahts obsessive” that’s </p> <p><br></p> <p><br></p> <p>They then start to fear restriction because of the approaches they took before that left them sad, isolated, restricted etcetc </p> <p>Tried keto etcetc so that rebellion against restriction kicks in</p> <p><br></p> <p>I had a client that never changed because she was following a lot of acceptance and body positive anti diet things but she also wanted to change but because that was what she was surrounding herself with there was a lot of misery through her ambivalence </p> <p><br></p> <p>___ my taste buds – </p> <p><br></p> <p>There are a lot of coaches who get 100% compliant or not? scale weight? Cool heres your macros </p> <p><br></p> <p>This is why I ban the scale for at least 6 months even 12 months, people don’t know how to feel and ttune into their body anymore </p> <p>They don’t know how to FEEL things anymore</p> <p><br></p> <p>Because this then translates into the gym chasing only numbers not tuning into muscle tension which is the thing you need for muscle growth </p> <p><br></p> <p>Pinpoints that trigger us in the week</p> <p>My mindset isn’t 100% yet so I cant start until I get this or I cant do this until my mind is 100% </p> <p><br></p> <p><br></p> <p>If you haven’t learnt to trust yourself and if you don’t believe you can, you struggle more with the things</p> <p><br></p> <p>And they don’t believe they can and they aren’t doing the