229. Secrets of Sex and Marriage (with Shaunti Feldhahn)

<p>Prepare to dive into a topic that might make some of you a bit uncomfortable but is incredibly important for the health of your marriage - secrets of sex and marriage. My friend Shaunti Feldhahn is the author of the book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Sex-Marriage-Surprises-Difference/dp/0764239554/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1695608783&sr=8-4" rel="nofollow"><em>Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference</em></a>, and she and I are excited to discuss this because it&#39;s a topic that many couples struggle with but often don&#39;t openly address. We explore the surprises teased in her book title, from understanding what&#39;s normal to the different types of desire, and most importantly, effective communication.</p><p>One of the key takeaways from our discussion is that intimacy isn&#39;t just about physical connection; it&#39;s about knowing your spouse in the deepest, most vulnerable way possible. When you can truly understand your partner&#39;s fears, desires, and needs, you can build a stronger emotional and physical connection. Shanti has also created a workbook, &#34;Unlocking an Intimate Marriage,&#34; to complement the book and guide couples in fostering profound connections beyond just the bedroom, so whether you&#39;re in a thriving marriage or facing challenges, this episode has something valuable to offer, and I encourage you to join us on this journey of discovery and connection!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>In This Episode</strong></p><p>[0:35] - Today’s episode is with <a href="https://crystalpaine.com/86-how-to-talk-to-your-spouse-about-money-with-shaunti-feldhahn/" rel="nofollow">returning</a> guest Shaunti Feldhahn!</p><p>[1:57] - Shaunti shares some background information about herself with us.</p><p>[2:58] - Frequent sexual intimacy is a vital factor in marriages, impacting overall happiness.</p><p>[5:53] - Shaunti&#39;s research included aspects such as anonymous interviews.</p><p>[8:01] - Understanding the wide range of normal in intimacy is cr