EP279: {Special Series} What it's Like to be an Enneagram Four - Heart, Mind, and Soul with Holly Burgess - The Romantic/Individualist

Enneagram 4s are very mysterious. They are the creatives and the intuitives. <br /><br />Their core motive is being authentic to who they were designed to be. <br /><br />The most emotional on the Enneagram, they feel every emotion, sometimes in the span of two minutes. <br /><br />But their biggest fear is not having significance. <br /><br />So how can 4s step into the healthiest parts of themselves to share the unique gifts that only they can bring to the world? <br /><br />Holly Burgess is an Enneagram 4—The Romantic/Individualist.<br /><br />Today on the show, Holly joins me to walk us through her original mistyping and the one question I asked her during our first coaching session that caused everything to click so she could step into her true type, the Enneagram 4. <br /><br />We'll dig deeper into how her subtype influences how she presents in the world and how she digs into her wings to focus even more on who she is here to be. <br /><br />Holly discusses how she and her husband used the tools of the Enneagram to confront their communication difficulties and rebirth their marriage.<br /><br />Listen in as shares how our work together helped her pivot her career and discover her own path, using her true gifts. Learn how she uses ALL the tools of the Enneagram to stay at a healthy level. Plus, the biggest thing I taught her about vulnerability.<br /><br />What You Will Learn <br /><br />Why mysterious Enneagram 4s are the least (online) Enneagram typed <br />Why some intense experience-loving 4s are mistyped as a 3 or an 8 <br />Why social media keeps so many Enneagram 4s from sharing their unique gifts with the world<br />How stress brings out a 4s unhealthy people-pleasing ways<br />Why too much structure can cause a type 4 to feel they are being inauthentic, leading them to self-sabotage <br />Why Enneagram 4s can hold space for you but have a difficult time with their own vulnerability<br />Why 4s can pick up on what you aren't telling them more than any other Enneagram type<br /><br />Connect with Hol