Ep. 35: How to Be in the Driver's Seat of Your Life with Rick Alexander

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We talk about:</span></p> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Hitting personal rock bottom and realizing:</span> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">“I think I’ve just been fucking lying to myself… about who I am, what I want… and I think that’s evidenced by the fact that I don’t know who I am and I don’t know what I want.”</span></em></li> </ul> </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The danger of fear-based decision-making (by far the most common way to make a decision):</span> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">“If you make too many decisions out of fear - your own life strangles you.”</span></em></li> </ul> </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Wishing that others would “get it” and why trying to change them or their mind is a fruitless pursuit for everyone involved:</span> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">“You can’t make anybody do anything; we will change when we want to or when life forces us to.”</span></em></li> </ul> </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The importance of, and power in, leading by example. Be a light!</span></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How your beliefs shape your experience:</span> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">“Your belief isn’t what you say - your actual belief is how you act.”</span></em></li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">“If you’re acting as if your belief is true, does it make your life better or worse?”</span></em></li> </ul> </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">Creating massive change in a world that is desperately in need of it:</span> <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;"><em><span style= "font-weight: 400;">“Your entire world is a reflection of your inner world. We wo