Long Time Coming: A Guy's Guide to Extending Orgasm for Fulfilling Sex

The Secrets to Great SexLong Time Coming will inspire you to improve your sex life in order to take your sexual experience to the next level. Having spent decades studying sexual secrets from the Far East, Victor Gold brings ancient wisdom and modern science together to create better and more fulfilling sex lives for men (and their partners). Great sex isn't about performing, doing it right, or being perfect. Great sex is about the connection and energy you share with your partner, and the key to having better and more passionate sex is learning to build this connection and energy, starting with you first. The first little-known sexual secret is that, with practice, you can learn to prolong your orgasm for an hour, or more, by hovering indefinitely in the tiny, ecstatic space, right on the cutting edge of orgasm, just before your climax would occur. Though it may seem counter-intuitive, avoiding the conventional genital orgasm is the fundamental bedroom skill for prolonging your orgasm. Most men have been burdened by their addiction to coming. In fact, this book exposes the most destructive male sexual myth, namely, that a man's best and most enjoyable option in sex is having the most explosive genital release possible. It's not! What most men are still not aware of is that a man's genital release is a negative phenomenon. When men come, unlike women, they lose vital life force energy. This accounts for the loss of their erection, the loss of sexual desire and their sleepiness after sex. To prevent energy loss, accomplished male lovers employ the art of seminal retention. They master special "sexercises" that tone and develop the sex muscles that prevent unwanted male ejaculations. There is no loss of sexual pleasure since men can substitute multiple, full-body orgasms for ejaculation. Once you experience it you'll never want to go back to the "old way" of having sex! It takes keen awareness and discipline to remain in a highly aroused state, close to the orgasmic release point without coming. The little-known se